A Ghanaian woman is seriously in distress over her
inability to live with any man to whom she can be
married and committed, because any man who has
sex with her and subsequently sleeps with another
woman dies mysteriously.
It may be recalled that early this year, the said unnamed lady
shared her predicament with a relationship expert, David Papa
Bondze-Mbir and it sent shivers down the spines of many
people especially men who take delight in sleeping with any
woman they come across.
For an unknown reason the lady’s story has resurfaced online
and causing frenzy among social media users.
What is striking and intimidating in the lady’s story is the fact
that she threatened to start going round the various regions of
Ghana and begin to have sex with any man who appears
pleasing to her » , if no man is willing to stay with her alone
without having anything to do with any other woman. »
Her reason is that she is sexually active and needs
Read her full story below:
“I will be 38 years in July, 2017. And, I have been married, Three
(3) times. I have Two (2) kids, with two different late husbands,
whom I dearly loved.
“This is my story: when I was 18 years, I dated this gentleman,
who was then, a Third-year, University Student, at Legon. I was
in my final year at Senior Secondary School (SSS). He was my
first love, and we had dated for just Five (5) months. We had so
many dreams together – for our future.
He mysteriously died.
“I dated a married man, at age, 20, for just, Four (4) weeks. The
first time we had sex at a hotel, he died in his home, the very
“I didn’t date for a while, due to fear – until a friend at Church,
proposed to me, four years later. I was 25 years old, when I first
got married. Two (2) years into our marriage, he died one
dawn, after making love to me. We had no kids.
“I moved to Canada, to further my education. I met this Nigerian
Army guy, who showed interest in me. He married me, when I
was 30 years old. He died when I was, Seven (7) months
pregnant, with our first child »
“When I was 34, my third husband, a White Canadian Man, also
married me. We had an argument one day, when I was Three
months pregnant with our daughter. He was getting involved
with his Ex wife, and apparently, they had had sex. He
confessed to me, about sleeping with his Ex, and was asking for
“Dave, I loved my husband very much, so I willingly forgave him
that afternoon, and made passionate love to him, that very
moment. He died in his sleep that afternoon.
“Since relocating to Ghana, two years ago, I decided never to
date or marry again, however, I was getting horny a few times,
so I hooked up with a colleague at work, for just a one night
‘something’. He died in the house of his girlfriend, a day after
sleeping with me.
“As I write this letter to you, I am in Takoradi. I had to move
from Accra, to a different City. I couldn’t stand the horror of my
life. I met a guy at a night club, three weeks ago, whom I had a
‘fling’ with, at a hotel. I never saw or heard from him again,
until yesterday, when I saw his obituary poster, pasted on the
main gate, of the night club. He died, three weeks ago.
“Any man I sleep with, who just happens to sleep with another
woman, dies after having sex with me.
“I am relocating to Accra, again, to finally settle. I may not
marry or date anyone, until my death. However, I might need
sex, every now and then. I want to know if there is any man,
amongst your friends, who wouldn’t mind wanting to be
intimate with only me, without any commitments?
“I just got a new job in Accra, so he wouldn’t have to worry
about spending on me. I will take care of myself and the kids.
He just shouldn’t have a girlfriend or a wife. He shouldn’t be a
player. I don’t want to be responsible for the death of another
man. All I need is one faithful man, who wouldn’t mind giving
“Else, I might have to travel to each Region, anytime I desire for
sex, and hook up with any fine man I find attractive. I am
currently chatting and texting with one Ghanaian
parliamentarian, whom I suspect, is interested in me. He is a
married man, and it was because of his connections that got
me a job, and a place to stay in Takoradi. He is a good man, a
fine lawyer. I want to give in to his demands, but I fear for the
unknown. He’s gotten me so many job opportunities with
“I am not a prostitute, I am just a human being, who also has
genuine needs. Had it not been for my unfortunate history, I
would have been happily committed to just one man.
“I’ve been to Churches and Prayer Cathedrals, to be prayed for,
yet, men still die after having sex with me, and, it scares me